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Monday, October 5, 2015

First launch successful

You know as I reflect on our oldest child getting married this past week the word "intentional" still stands out.  Were we perfect parents?  No.  Has he always been the model child? No.  Did we do the best we could and follow the direction God gave us for him?  Yes, to the best of our limited abilities I believe we did.  Again, did we do it perfectly? No, but we were diligent, we tried to be intentional.

A couple of intentional things we chose to do that stand out in regards to his marriage.

#1 We prayed.  Early on we began praying for his marriage and his future wife.  We tried to be intentional and specific.  I believe God answered those prayers in Kathleen, his bride.

#2 We taught.  Sure, we taught him God's word but beyond that we intentionally taught the things the Bible says about being a husband and father.  We did things like Bible studies, family devotions, books-like Teknon Warrior as well as trying to surround him with other Godly men to model. We went way beyond what they teach in Sunday School.

#3 We modeled.  Our kids have always known our marriage comes first.  From the time they were little they know time Mom and Dad had together was a priority.  They saw us attend marriage weekends, go on dates, take trips together, lead Bible studies together, work together and yes, even fight.   We do not have a perfect marriage, but a real marriage that we work on and our children know it.

#4 We had relationship. We had "dates".  Family dates, one-on-one dates (though as the kids got older they no longer liked to call them that!)  and plenty of family work and play vacations.  We talked, lived, worked, played and did life together.  That takes time and I thank the Lord for homeschooling, because without it I know I would not have the relationship I do with my children.

As much as we had successes we also had failures.  We were not always as consistent as we should have been but God is gracious.  Writing this I realize there are those that may do the same but yet have very different results.  It is by God's grace.  There is no magic formula.  I want to Thank God for this outcome for Logan and Kathleen.  I believe God has worked in their lives to bring them together and am excited to see what they will become and how God will use them together!

It's not over, though our relationship will change, Logan is still my son.  We will still pray, teach, model and have relationship.  But it is very rewarding to see the fruit thus far!

Tuesday, September 29, 2015

Paper Lantern Centerpieces

These were easy, inexpensive, and really cute.  I used them for the rehearsal dinner centerpieces for my sons wedding.  They are honeymooning in Japan and had an oriental theme for the wedding.  These fit right into the red/black oriental theme.  Read on for how to create these pretty lanterns.

First, a confession, I both enjoy and am incredibly frustrated by Pinterest.  You find a really cute picture of something, exactly what you need, and then try to figure out how they did it.  Once you can figure out how to trail back to the original spot where this lovely creation lives, the frustration is only intensified.  There is the picture again with zero instructions or comments on how the heck they did it!  Can anyone else feel my pain?

My daughter tells me, "It's an inspiration board Mom."  Well I guess I need a little more than inspiration.  I need the detailed instructions too.
paper #lanterns as centerpieces #wedding:

So for anyone else frustrated, at least with the pretty Chinese lantern centerpieces, I'd like to help you out.  I figured it out!  And here are instructions! 

Here is the original picture I found on Pinterest.  They are just paper lanterns you can get at party stores, or online with flowers poked in the first level of metal frame.  Just use wire snips and cut the stems off the flowers leaving about 1/2 inch of stem to poke through.   I hot glued mine in just to make sure they were secure.  After that all you need is a battery operated tea light.  They seemed pretty easy, except how in the world do you get them to stay standing and not roll when bumped.  They sit if you balance them right but once you attach the flowers they are top heavy.  This had me puzzled.

Tried a number of things but finally the perfect thing dawned on me.  A large mouth canning ring.  It sits perfectly and I already own a bunch,so I didn't have to buy them!

I spent about $25 to do 10 centerpieces.  The flowers and tea lights were from the Dollar store.  I found the patterned lanterns on clearance for $2.99 a pack of 3 and the plain ones on line 10 for $6 (didn't use them all.)  The 6 and 8 inch ones work best for centerpieces.

Wednesday, August 12, 2015

Little Learners "sneak peak"

What has kept me busy and away from blogging this summer?  Launching a new LITERATURE BASED LANGUAGE ARTS curriculum for 5-8 years olds!  It has been quite an experience to say the least.  

We began this journey almost 10 years ago when Lexie was in 2nd grade.  It was out of frustration that I began writing a curriculum for Lex that would turn into Little Learners Language Arts.

So I won't bore you with the details of finding an editor, formatting pages, coding websites, figuring out non-exempt retail status, setting up shopping carts with tax codes, getting a DBA, figuring out pricing, shipping and many more details that seem to consume mountains of time when I'd rather be creating more guides for the series!

With out further ado, here are a few "samples" to hopefully get you excited about our new adventure!

Just some of the titles you'll find guides for with Little Learners!
A look at the new covers!
 And last but not least, a peek at a few pages! 

I know, it's not enough, but that is the point!  It's a "sneak peak" so stay tuned for more!  The new website will launch in just a matter of days, maybe even hours!  Feel free in the meantime to let me know your thoughts so far.  I'd love to hear what YOU think!

Wednesday, July 8, 2015

Progress on writing!

Many years ago God made it clear to me that I was to do this and all the pieces of the puzzle have not come together until now.  Free Colorful Puzzle Clip Art

It's been a strange day (good and bad) but I'm choosing right now to be excited about something that I've literally been working on for 9 years.  Yikes, when I count them up, that is A LONG time but it's true.  

I just sent two workbooks to an editor!  This has been a long time in coming and is one of the last steps before I can put them "out there" for others to benefit from.

It reminds me of a portion of a verse I actually had "stickered" to my wallet years ago.  God gave me this "message" after I had had a miscarriage and it gave me great peace that I would have those little "blessings" running around and I did, and do!

 Psalms 37:34: Don’t be impatient for the Lord to act! Keep traveling steadily along his pathway and in due season he will honor you with every blessing..." TLB
(by the way the "rest of it is" and you will see the wicked destroyed, which wasn't the part I felt God was emphasizing to me but still, it's there.)

Sometimes we just have to "keep traveling along" and that seems to be what's happening in this long situation too.

So thank you Lord for this bright spot in an otherwise depressing day.  Hopefully it will serve as an encouragement to others to keep plugging along on whatever God has laid on your heart.  

Sometimes, like today when we've received not so good news in other areas of our life, you have to force yourself back to work and look for something to be excited about.  This is it today.

I'll leave it at that and be a bit "cryptic" for now, but good things will be "coming soon"!

Monday, June 29, 2015

Planning in July

"Traditionally" I have taken the last two weeks of July and spent about an hour or two each day to lay out our next year.  For many, many years this was the only way I could ensure we could stay on track and I could hold all four kids accountable.  It kept all of us organized.   

Though I will readily admit I have strayed from this path the last two (maybe even three) years; we are going back to it for this fall.  Going from 4 students to 3, and then almost immediately from 3 to 2, scheduling and "keeping" track became much easier.  I didn't have as much "need" to be so organized.  Then came this spring.  Let me refer you to my last post titled Busy, Busy, Busy!

When we get extremely busy, and we anticipate that we will be, extensive planning just makes life easier and keeps us on track.  It makes us think and plan ahead so we can proactively address needs.

So while I plan to "plan" our next year I thought I'd share some of the tools I've found useful over the years.

1. Donna Young has a FABULOUS site with a plethora of tracking forms all done for you and FREE!  I've used many of her forms over the years.  Please don't feel like you need to use them all or even 25% of them, just take what you need.  She has TONS.

2. Don't feel like you need a form to track everything.  I subscribe to the KISS method (Keep It Simple Stupid.)  Use the Table of Contents to note grades if you like.  When I was busy with many students at home I didn't have time to correct, let alone log grades.  What I did was simply note the grade they got for each chapter test in the margin of the table of contents by that chapter.  If you have more then one activity or type of test you want to note just do that.  At the end of the year, if I was giving grades, all I had to do was look at all the table of contents pages before I filed their work away.  Even now that I do have more time with only 2 students I still use this method for many of the subjects.

3. Excel can be your greatest tool.  If you are familiar with Excel or another spreadsheet program don't be intimidated out of creating sheets for your own needs.  Each year I created a spreadsheet for each of my 4 tailored EXACTLY to them and our needs.  Once you figure out what you need and like you will use the same sheet year after year making occasional tweaks. 

One of our schedules from a few years back
4. Make a daily schedule and try to stick to it (at least most of the time.)  You will be amazed at what this one consistent habit will allow you to accomplish.  I recommend "scheduling" your various subjects into your days/times.  Don't forget to put in other "non" school things like chores, working out, devotions, music practice etc....  Post this schedule on your bulletin board, refrigerator and give each of your students who can read a copy for their binder or desk.  Here's a blank for you to start with.  (Here it is in publisher.)

5. I alluded to this above...have a written plan (week by week) for each student.  This helps you and your student see if they are on pace to finish when you want/need to. It gives them some accountability.  Here's the one I used from Donna Youngs site.  

6. A note...what if we really mess up and get way behind?  Won't it just depress me to see how behind we are?  To solve this problem I highly recommend "project" or "catch-up/get ahead" weeks.  You simply schedule in weeks (perhaps one per quarter) slated as "project" week.  This can become a "fun" educational project of the students choosing (as a "reward" for staying on task) or it becomes "catch up" to get back on track with no harm done to your scheduling.  

So as a final note, why end of July for my planning?  For me it gives me a good month to decompress from the school year and I'm generally pretty rested and tan by then (AKA, have spent enough time lounging by the pool that I'm ready to begin thinking about it.)  Also, we generally like to have a "last blast of summer" the end part of August before school starts and I want to have it done before then.  Something different might work for you but there you go, there is my reasoning.

Friday, June 5, 2015

Busy, busy, busy...

Amazon.com has some cute free music samplers for kids available right ...Do you remember that song, "Busy, busy, we're dreadfully busy.  You've no idea what I have to do!"  It was from Veggie Tales and takes me back a bit as my children have moved on, however, that could have been our anthem this spring. 

We have traveled more this spring than any other year ever.  It's all been good, but challenging.  We are in the home stretch, almost done with this "season", thankfully!  What have we been so busy with?  Two things have been primarily responsible for our heavy travel schedule; NCFCA and Total Language Plus.  Both activities are an incredible blessing to us, but both require a "busy" season and happen to collide into the same couple of months.  It gets crazy, but IT IS WORTH IT.
Ariel traveling and working TLP with me

Everyone goes through these times when things get a little "stretched".  For most of us it's probably not quite as taxing as the last few months have been for us, but I'm willing to bet that you can relate.  So what works and what doesn't?  Fortunately, we've been doing this for several years so we've learned a few things.  I will fully admit though, I am not perfect and I'm looking forward to lots of white space in my calendar for July and August where I can catch up on some things.

So best practices for busy times...

1. Plan ahead.  This is my salvation many times.  Huge area here for us is the meals.  I try to always have some things made ahead in the freezer and this is the time we use them.  For instance, we were away at convention last weekend at a hotel that had a microwave and refrigerator; I was able to pull a frozen pack of pulled pork from the freezer and take it with us for a meal in our room.  A few days before we left I also took 1/2 hour and made some homemade breakfast sandwiches with eggs and cheese and froze them.  They made terrific breakfasts in the room and saved us some money.

Even if you're not traveling, planning some foods ahead will help you out!

2. If you know a busy "season" is coming prepare the house as much as you can.  When you are in a busy season it's not the time to clean out the refrigerator or other major cleaning, do it before or wait till it's over.  Try to get the laundry and ironing caught up before if you can.  If your "season" extends like ours has try to keep it up.  In my 3-4 days home between travel I try to get the laundry done.  Ironing...well, as my husband will attest, I can't quite manage that though I did have it caught up before we started.  I'll need to have  a little, okay big, ironing party in a week or two once I'm home for the long haul again. 

3. Keep your priorities.  This means my little Bible comes with us and even when we are getting up at the crack of dawn (or before) to get to our Debate tournament on time I'm typically reading to the kids our "thought for the day".  Is it a large in depth study,? No, but it keeps the focus where it should be even in the busyness.  

4.  Let go of what you can.  Remember, it's only temporary.  For me, part of what I "let go" for a time is my blog.  It's not a necessity.  I enjoy it and think it helps others, but it is low on my priority list.  Family and home come first.  What can you let slide?

5. Try to give extra attention to relationships.  When I'm busy it is often easy for my family to feel neglected.  I try to get everything done on the days I am home before my husband gets home from work to be able to spend time with him.  Here's the part that is hard.  Quantity does matter.  A few years back there was a saying that was going around, "Quality over quantity."   I don't have statistics to share here, but it's largely been debunked.  Quantity does matter.  Personally, I can attest to that.  You can't do much if you're in a "busy" season but you can carve out large quantities of time as soon as you can to build into your relationships.  This goes for kids too.   And of course if you can, have your family travel with you or do your "busyness" with you, that helps too and we often try to do that.

So that will bring me to my next entry, the importance of quantity time together!  Stay tuned....

Wednesday, March 18, 2015

Convention season is here!

Do you love going to homeschool conventions?  Never been?  Here's my short and sweet top 10 reasons to attend!  Seriously though, it will change your homeschool for the better, just go!  Scroll down for the ones I'll be at this year; stop by and say "hi".

10.  Where else can you find such  a plethora of ROLLING CARTS?

9. Homeschool extra stuff, T-shirts, key chains, mugs etc...  You don't see this at Wal-mart!

8. You can sit down before a workshop and strike up a conversation with the stranger next to you and realize you have almost everything in common!

7. You get to see close up what's out there that you didn't know existed in the curriculum realm.

6. Your kids finding other kids, just like them!

5. Do you love to page through new books?  

4. You can find comfort and counsel with others about your book addiction.

3. Where else will your family of 4+ seem normal, or even small?

2. No where else will you find this collection of amazing speakers.

1. This is THE place for encouragement, inspiration and information for your homeschool journey!

Here's where I'll be this spring.  Stop by and say "hi" if you are attending any of these events.

March 21st      Farmington Hills, MI (Homeschoolworks)

March 27th+38     Indianapolis, IN (IAHE)

April 9-11th    Cincinnati, OH (Midwest)

May 15th +16th Lansing, MI (INCH)

May 16th Fort Wayne, IN (my kids will be at this one)

May 28th-30th Sandusky, OH (TTD)

June 4-6th Naperville, IL (ICHE)